ASSuming

If you find out information that makes you upset...you should go to the source and never assume. ALWAYS ask the person what's on your mind and give them a chance to explain themselves. Sometimes we take bits and pieces of a conversation and run with it. You'd be surprised..most of your conflicts probably come from misunderstandings. And..this bit of 2 cents applies to people older than you, same age as you and even younger than you. Shoot...I learned it from my 3-year-olds. Oftentimes, I want to yell at them, but instead I give them a chance to explain themselves and they have reasonable explanations for what they're doing. Food for thought.....

Peace.
:)